If you have a lot of debt and creditors are calling, you have two choices: deal with them, or ignore them. Ignoring them may work for a while, but eventually it is in your best interests to make a plan to deal with them.
I had two interesting experiences this week that illustrate the different approaches possible when dealing with people, and how making a plan to deal with them is usually the best option.
My first experience was a meeting I had with a debtor and a creditor. Not surprisingly, the creditor was upset because he was owed money. The debtor, due to a failed business and job loss, did not have the money to pay. The creditor thought the debtor had money, so he took him to court and sued him, in an attempt to garnishee his wages. Our meeting was the first time they talked face to face. By the end of the meeting it became apparent that what the creditor wanted most, other than his money, was an explanation of how the problems started. Had the two parties sat down and discussed the problem, the situation would probably have never gone to court, and a suitable resolution might have been possible.
Unfortunately, once a wage garnishment starts, personal bankruptcy is often the result.
My second experience happened yesterday, when I had the pleasure of attending a fundraising luncheon for the Catholic Family Counselling Centre, the only non-profit credit counseling agency operating in Kitchener, Cambridge, and surrounding areas. Also in attendance were financial professionals from other credit counseling agencies, including the Family Counselling Centre of Brant.
The guest speaker was Bill Clinton, the former U.S. president, and he told an interesting story about his dealings with Yassar Arafat and Ariel Sharon in the year 2000, trying to bring peace to the Middle East. He told the story of Ariel Sharon’s proposed visit to a site considered sacred by Arafat’s people. Mr. Sharon made the visit not to upset Mr. Arafat, but rather as a show of strength to members of his own political party, who viewed him as weak.
President Clinton advised Mr. Arafat not to over-react, but instead to meet with Mr. Sharon face to face, peacefully, to work out their differences. For political reasons Mr. Arafat refused to do so, and as a result we sit here today, six years and one Middle East war later, still waiting for peace in the Middle East.
My point is this: we all need a plan, whether it’s to deal with our creditors, or to try to bring peace to the Middle East, and all plans start with dialogue. Without dialogue and a plan, no solutions will be found.
I have no idea how to bring peace to the Middle East, but I do know how to give you peace when dealing with your creditors: start by talking to them. Tell them your situation; tell them how much you can afford to pay them each month, and see if you can work out payment terms with them.
If you can’t reach an agreement with them, get help in your negotiations with a credit counselor in Ontario, or give us a call to talk about helping you negotiate a legal settlement (called a consumer proposal) to deal with your debts.
It is possible to work out a plan to deal with your debts, but it all starts with you. You need to make that first call. We want to help you make a plan, which is why our phone number is 310-PLAN (no area code required), so call us or e-mail us today, and let’s get started.
Filed under credit counselling, consumer proposal, personal bankruptcy, Bill Clinton
Posted in Consumer Proposal, Personal Bankruptcy, PLAN
Posted by J. Douglas Hoyes, CA, Trustee
on Thursday, November 9, 2006